A short but powerful message from my friend Jodiee on the subject of being fetishised by others.
I’M ACCEPTING AM TRANSSEXUAL…. AND I WONT CHANGE
Only recently this week, I’ve become clear of what Negativity and mis-understanding of peoples opinions can do to me. It affects you as a person inside feeling as if you have to explain yourself. But, NOT anymore.
This week has made me realize that if you want to be accepted, surround yourself round the people who will accept you and not put you away in the hidden corner or call you by a male pronoun. (Female in an FTM)
I’m starting to realize that not everyone in the world will dwell on transsexuals. And frankly, Straight men are just bone-idol They probably get home and fap off to shemale movies, So there opinion’s do not mean shit to me!
So, Theres one more thing that bugs the living shit out of me.
WE ARE A GENDER. NOT A OBJECT. NOT A FETISH. NOT YOUR FANTASY
These days, Transsexual seem to carry the ‘Fetish’ attachment. Yes, Half the TS world are in porn or the escort industry. May you be so kind to ask yourself why? Because, Men only hunt one thing out of them. SEX.
Why should we have to live a life of being used for sex just because men seem to think we’re an object? If were an object, Then pay to use us! That is how we see it.
If men buckled up and got used to the fact that they see as a woman ‘with that bit extra’ and fucked what society thinks and dated a transsexual (not always openly as we don’t scream we have dicks in the middle of town) Then the industry would be a lot lower. But, As I say. I Love being transsexual. I am not anyone’s fetish and I shall carry on to live my life until I find a nice guy who will love me for me!
XOXO Trans sisters and brothers! REBLOG if you agree!!